What a transition can feel like
Even a change we choose can bring uncertainty, grief, or a sense of losing our footing. People often bring changes such as these to therapy: career changes, relationship shifts, parenthood, and loss or other major life changes.
After a stressful life event, a person may have stress, anxiety, or feelings of sadness or hopelessness, along with physical symptoms.1
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Mood
Feeling sad, hopeless, or anxious.1
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Stress
A reaction to the change that is stronger than you would expect for the event.1
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Body
Physical symptoms alongside the stress.1
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Daily life
Trouble at work or in your social life.1
Stress after a change is common, and for many people it settles as they adjust. When the reaction is strong, or it starts to affect work or relationships, support can help.
Stress after a change
Adjustment disorder is the name for a group of symptoms that follow a stressful life event. MedlinePlus describes the reaction as stronger than expected for the event, with symptoms that can affect work or social life and that most often start within 3 months of the stressor.1 Symptoms usually ease within about 6 months once the stressor has ended, unless it continues.1 A licensed professional makes the diagnosis. You do not need one to ask for help during a change.
Relationship changes can be especially hard to manage. The relationship therapy page covers how Lindsey’s practice approaches that.
How therapy for life transitions works
Lindsey’s practice gives you space to make sense of what is changing, reconnect with what matters to you, and build support. Each plan is shaped around what you are dealing with.
- Mindfulness
Practices for staying grounded during change and for noticing emotions as they arise.
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Looks at the thoughts that come with uncertainty and builds practical ways to respond.
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Builds skills for getting through hard moments.
- Somatic approaches
Help you feel more settled in your body as well as your mind.
What the research says
MedlinePlus notes that most mental health professionals recommend some type of talk therapy for adjustment disorder, and names CBT as one type. It adds that medicines may be used, but only along with talk therapy.1
Lindsey’s practice offers CBT, along with mindfulness, DBT, and somatic approaches, which that page does not list.
Working with Lindsey Capelli
Lindsey Capelli, LPC, NCC, SAC, leads the practice and offers therapy for life transitions. The areas of focus on her profile include complex trauma and PTSD, anxiety, and mood and personality disorders.
She sees teens and adults, in person and virtually, in the daytime and evening.
Getting started
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Call (732) 440-9330 or send a request through the contact form. Please leave health details out of the form.
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Our care coordinator will reach out to help you schedule.
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Choose where to meet: in person at 55 Gilbert St W, Ste 3202, Tinton Falls, or virtually from anywhere in New Jersey. Virtual sessions are HIPAA-compliant.
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Appointments are available Monday to Friday, 8 am to 7 pm.
Living Well Counseling Center is an out-of-network, private-pay practice. Read the Good Faith Estimate page for fee information.
If you are worried about someone else
People going through a change sometimes pull away from the people around them. You can say what you have noticed, ask how they are doing, and listen without rushing to fix it. Offer to help them find a therapist. If you are worried about their safety, call 911 or 988 right away.2
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Questions about life transitions therapy
Is this a diagnosis?
No diagnosis is needed to start. A licensed professional can tell you whether your symptoms meet the criteria for a condition such as adjustment disorder.1
Which therapists work with life transitions?
Lindsay Thompson Neill and Marina Fried list life transitions among their areas of focus, and Lindsey Capelli offers therapy for life transitions.
How is this different from anxiety or depression?
A transition can bring anxiety or low mood, and those pages cover each in detail. The work here starts from the change itself, and what it has stirred up.
Do you accept insurance?
Living Well Counseling Center is out-of-network and private pay. You can read fee information on the Good Faith Estimate page.
Start with a conversation.
Call (732) 440-9330, or send a request through the form. Our care coordinator will reach out to help you schedule.
Sources
- MedlinePlus. Adjustment disorder. (opens in a new tab) Accessed October 7, 2026.
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. (opens in a new tab) Accessed October 7, 2026.